mother mail. your favorite pen pal club for mother mail. your favorite pen pal club for moms. join us! moms. join us!

To learn more about our latest initiative,  Justice Impacted Mom letter writing drive, scroll to the bottom of this post and click the link. Thank you so much for your interest! We are not currently accepting new people for our regular Mother Mail penpal group. 

Welcome to Mother Mail!

Mother Mail is both a virtual gathering to encourage letter writing and a penpal swap to connect with mothers both new and seasoned all over the world. It was founded in 2016 and is hosted by Sherisa de Groot.

Many of us have turned to the internet to connect with new communities that become family. Sometimes, it’s nice to take that community offline and have mementos that you can keep. Back in 2016, Raising Mothers ran a one-off postcard swap called RMWOES (Raising Mothers Words Of Encouragement Swap). It was wildly successful. Some mamas still send each other letters all these years later.

It is now a real club with annual membership of $20.

You don’t have to be a new mom to participate. Everyone can use a kind note in the mail.

Sign up one year of Mother Mail for $20!

How does it work?

  1. Fill in the registration form  & pay the fee
    This step is super important. There is an option at the end of the form to pay the $20 registration fee. Here is the link to the form.
  2. Buy stationary or make postcards 
    If you’d like to buy special stationary, that’s up to you. If you’d prefer to just send a card or postcard, that’s also fine. Have your stamps ready!
  3. Send your letters or cards out on time!
    We’re aiming for the first set to be sent out in December. You will receive your email with your first set of addresses during the last week of November. From there, aim to send out a new letter or postcard before the 15th of each month. To keep the essence of RMWOES, send a stranger some comforting or encouraging words and let them know how you’re doing.
  4. If you feel like sharing, use the hashtags: #raisingmothers #mothermail

Mother Mail helps keep Raising Mothers running—so, make a friend through the mail AND support the website all at once.